Gone are the days…

Disclaimer: Mostly fictional.

“Mommy! Mommy! Can I have another?” asked the little girl, jumping around her Mother, at the Cafe. I caught myself staring at her. She reminded me of someone.

“Oh, sure, honey!” replied her Mother. The little girl wanted another sweet. Her Mother bought another one for her.

I smiled in their general direction. Generous, I thought. My Mother would never have relented so easily. Of course, that was always just a momentary no. If I ever needed something and was denied, she would put it under my pillow, if small, or under my bed, if big, that very same night. She always made sure that I was happy.

I looked down at my poached egg; my hunger had suddenly abandoned me. I had to think before I spent now. I was away, far away from home, where a tantrum would get me what I wanted.

The smile I had had on my face just seconds ago, vanished. All that remained was a ghost of a smile, if at all.

I left the Cafe without eating anything and rushed to College. Lectures dragged on the whole day. I had no time to think about anything else.

So there was a study tour coming up, and the girl sitting two rows ahead was very excited about it.

“Well, obviously, the true reason we are going on this trip is to see the place and have fun! Who cares what the “tour” has to offer! I’m all packed already but I might shop a little more! I’ll probably have to get another bag to stuff it all in! Too much work, don’t you think!?” she kept chatting, incessantly with her girlfriends.

I looked at them and looked back down at my tattered, used copy of the textbook. I can’t go for this trip. I can’t pay for it. I was already working two jobs to help me through School, a trip was an expense I could avoid.

I couldn’t travel in reality but I could travel down memory lane..

“We are going on a holiday, my dear!” said my Father, as soon as he came back home from work that day.

“Yes!!! When, daddy, when!?” I shrieked, running to him and hugging him.

“Next week sounds good, right? Is your schedule all clear my busy little daughter??” he asked me.

“Let me check my Diary, Daddy! Hehe” I giggled, pretending to check an imaginary Diary. “Yes! I am available! Let’s go!!”

That had been a happy day, I thought, coming out of my reverie. I too had been in a position of not bothering where the money came from. I too had been happy once, excited and looking forward to the next day. That just seemed like a long time ago. All that remained was a ghost of that excitement, of years ago.

After classes and the shift at the library, I walked back home. A home, away from home. My responsibilities and the cruel realities weighing me down, making it difficult to walk. The day had reminded me too much of my carefree childhood; reminded me too much about the stresses I face everyday; of my demons, lurking around the corner. When my friends tell me to be content in the small things and that this too shall pass, I agree with them. But it is easier said, you see. As a child, I would dream big. About things I would achieve, do. Places I would see. People I would meet. But I found myself walking home, alone, a home, away from home, thinking how only the next day mattered, at the most. There was just worry, exhaustion now. The dream had faded away, and all that remained was a Ghost of it, if at all.

P. S. I guess I put a little too much of my current state of mind into this protagonist.. I guess that is just separation anxiety talking. Happy mind-clearing! 🙂



August Goodbyes

My blog on my mug!!!
My blog on my mug!!!

Alrighy then. First and foremost, apologies for having abandoned my blog…for nearly 1.5 months. No excuses. A very bad thing to have done. Complete lack of trying as well… Been out of Reach of my inner writer; willingness to write. Things have finally fallen into place, and so I can begin!

I understand that my entire theme of July went down the drain, but I shall write that out as I did learn cooking, albeit, basic, just-for-survival cooking! I can’t let Julie and Julia July just fade away with the category blank!

Anyway, August is here! Who am I kidding… it has been here for weeks now, sorry 😦

It’s the final month in India, for I don’t know how many years to come! I’m quite blank, I’m neither excited, nor sad. I’m just..?

It started with saaa aka Abbas leaving, that’s when I wrote my first goodbye. Now it is time for me to say so to my special people and hence, I shall obediently give them my kind of goodbye – something this permanent and PDA-like. And what is a better medium than an abandoned warehouse of written work!?

August is my last with my people, my soulmates, my lovelies, and I am going to make it all worth it!

Before I begin, if I miss out on someone, which is unlikely, remember that I love you too!

As for practicing my short stories, many more months are yet to come! So worry not!

First, for my egg, my penguin!

P. S. Okay, must admit, feels great to write here again…knowing someone somewhere is reading! Happy brewing, happy reading! 🙂


Deprived of Everything

“Sir, you have a conference call at 0945h; the ROW marketing meeting at 1030h. Your lunch with Mr. Smith has been arranged at 1300h. You have Reg Inc. coming in at 1530h and Boss needs you dot at 1700h.”

He listened to his secretary ramble on about his schedule for the day. This was every day, nothing unusual. He didn’t even bother looking up. He made notes about pending work which he would have to finish before each of the mentioned meetings and asked, “Is there anything else?”

“Well, your Project report is due tomorrow.”

“Oh, yes. I’ll have to do that after my last meeting for the day.”

He had begun working on the report the previous night, after yet another day completely booked by appointments and meetings. He couldn’t recollect the last time he had slept the entire night. He sighed and continued working. He ordered coffee, after a while.

“You are going to ruin your health like this, honey,” his wife had warned him the previous night. “Please stop this and come to bed.”

“Yes, I’ll be there in a few, sweetheart, I promise,” he promised, falsely.

He awoke the next day and found that he had dozed off at the table, in the study. He had sighed and begun to get ready for the day.

“Stop thinking about irrelevant things,” he said to himself, shaking his head to come out of his reverie.

With the conference call and meeting done, he was sitting in the car, on his way to the restaurant when his phone rang.

“Hello, my sleep deprived husband!” chirped his wife.

“Hello, my observant wife!” he replied.

“I hope you remember that it is your son’s recital today? I expect you to be home by six, ok?”

A moment of silence followed. This would be the third consecutive recital he would be missing. He didn’t know how to break the news to his wife this time.

“I, uh..”

“Oh no. Oh no no. You can’t –”

“I’m sorry, darling. I really am! I’ll talk to him, I promise!”

“You cannot possibly think I’m ok with this!? Do you know that you haven’t attended a single one of his performances? Can’t you make an hour’s time for your son??” she asked, her tone accusatory.

“I’m really sorr –”

“Please. Don’t. You are hardly ever home, and even if you are, you stay in your study. You can’t make time for your own son, your wife. How important is your damn work? Is it more so than your family? You are depriving a son of his father and a wife of her husband. I have nothing more to say to you.”

She cut the call.

This too was usual. They often fought over his absence at home, important functions.

But he always tried to reason with her saying that his hard work is what offers them a luxurious life. He had never had one himself. He wanted his son to have one. He always had to think twice before spending on anything, had to curb his demands while seeing his other rich friends get what they want and also what they didn’t. He didn’t want this to happen to his son. He didn’t want him to cope with financial difficulties at a young age. So he worked and slogged his guts out.

“But you can’t buy your son some time with his father, you fool!” his wife would yell.

He just didn’t want to deprive his son of a good, secure life. Why couldn’t she understand that he was doing it all for them?

He stopped thinking about his wife and son, and continued through the day. He met his boss, who unloaded his own worries on him, his subordinate, quite conveniently. He took it silently and promised better results. This promise he will have to keep.

He walked back to his cabin, sat down and decided to grab some shut eye before starting with the report. He checked the time, it was 1817h. When is the recital, he wondered. He picked up the phone and dialed his wife’s number. He’ll make up for it tonight, he decided. He’ll take the weekend off and be with his son, he decided.

“Hello? Mr. Roy?” asked a male voice, instead of his wife.

“Huh? Hello? Who are you?”

“Mr. Roy, I’m speaking from Grant General Hospital. Sir, I’m extremely sorry to tell you, but your wife and son…

P. S. A short story after a long time. Disclaimer: Completely fictional. No happy anything…


Journey Within A Journey..

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It has been a bad week. Let’s just leave it at that. But it affected us all, my friends and me, to an inexplicable extent. If I have to try, I’d say, to the extent that we have all probably aged this past week.

I saw the prompts every day, even thought of what I could write, but simply chose to not, at the end of the day. My consistency has taken a major hit though and it is high time that I get back on the horse, else, the only medium of expression I have at my disposal will be a forum long forgotten. So, voyage it is!

Imagine a weird dream – it’s a big ship, on which there is a pool. In this huge pool, there is a ship, on which there is a pool too. Now in this pool, there is another ship, and so on.

You know what the first ship is? It is our life. It is our maiden voyage. Our birth-to-death journey. You know what the ships within the main ship are? They are our experiences! The smaller journeys during our lifetime. Our childhood, adolescence, school or college life, the afternoon with grandparents, the picnic with friends, the family dinner discussion, the argument with mom..

The above can be long term voyages or the ones which last a few minutes, but each experience is a journey. You may be motionless, but you change positions, mentally. You are never the person you were a minute ago, you can never be that person, ever again. True, you can’t be a baby again, but remember, you can’t be the person you were before you read this line.

In short, the main journey and all the little voyages you end up taking up, are all unidirectional, irrevocable. The experience itself is the vessel and the path, your unavoidable voyage.

Now, in the same ocean, there are other vessels. These are journeys that others are on. If you club with another, your journey becomes theirs and theirs becomes yours. Until you part ways. But if the beacon persists, you still know where that friend of yours is. Even if not physically near, they know you remember them.

I don’t know which journeys I should talk about. Which of mine and which ones I’ve taken on with my family, friends. Do you want me to talk about my change of school? That was 11 years ago; about the time I took my school exams? That was 6 years ago; the journey that was college? I just finished 4 years of it; the journey I was and am still on, of my higher studies, starting with the examinations, applications, visa procedures..? Why such long term voyages? Why such tedious and lengthy experiences? I’ll tell you about how I aged during the few seconds I waited before my results flashed on the computer screen, the tremendous experience that the gap of a few seconds actually is. When I took a few examinations 4 years ago and clicked finish, for my marks to be displayed, I was devastated and disappointed. It was all my fault, obviously, I took everything for granted. Depression ensued. I went through all the stages – denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. I aged then. I changed. I became more responsible. Why? The few-seconds-later had changed my life. Last year, I took other exams, with a similar result declaration format. The few seconds were back. The past experience nagged me. I aged again. I had changed again. This time I had done everything I could; I knew it wouldn’t be my fault. I was on a new journey altogether during those few seconds, but this time I had succeeded and my life had changed, hopefully, for the good.

So I told you a few journeys that I was on, on my ship. Some were long, some of merely seconds, but they were all experiences, which taught me a lot; voyages I had been on.

And what about the voyage I am on with my friends? The past week has been a journey too. One which we didn’t want to be on, didn’t want any of our accompanying vessels to be on, but we had no choice. But it’s again one which we would sail ahead on, together. We have all aged, matured, within a night. Our perspectives and priorities have changed. We are planning and thinking differently. It has been and will be a different important journey, one which has bound us together, stronger than ever before..

I understand I sound vague, but I’m sure you can relate to it all. At first I wanted to write about my friends, the journey that I have been on with them, but that is suited for another time, perhaps about 50 days from today. Until then, more experiences to have, more situations to encounter, more daily journeys to be on… After all, that is what life is all about.

P. S. I know I missed the Sunday post. I apologize. But my consistency shall resume again. Vague will become specific tomorrow. Until then, happy journey! 🙂


Travel Tales!

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The consistent association of the City of Mumbai with its locals is clichéd and yet there is no other way to put it. A fast life, the rush, the feeling of constantly being on the move, all of this simply comes with being a Mumbaikar. I am being prejudiced, of course. But truth be told, I experienced it all properly for the very first time just a couple of years ago. The above feelings are quite fresh, emerging out of my recent stint with the Mumbai life – travel and work.

Travelling cannot be separated from the life in Mumbai. It is a known fact that the locals that run here are the lifeline of Mumbai. The constant movement of trains in all directions is like the blood pumping in the arteries – necessary and life-sustaining. Facing the roads by not taking the train is like performing a bypass connecting the brain to the arteries. I say brain on purpose because the emotional attachment a true Mumbaikar has with the locals, invariably stems from his heart. He may have millions of rifts with the locals but at the end of the day, he’ll still be grateful for its existence.

The standing on the edge with the wind in your hair, the mumbling of the tracks below which is the typical sound that forms a part of every child’s play (chookh chookh?), the getting down or climbing into a moving train, letting natural physics do the trick. Who hasn’t related to that feeling when inertia was first taught? The innumerable experiences a Mumbaikar has while travelling on the train! They are worth the effort, life lessons as they are! Patience, perseverance and determination – to deal with the maddening, suffocating crowd, to remain in one of the most uncomfortable positions throughout the journey, to push the crowd apart and make your way into the compartment just to reach work on time or home soon. It’s survival 101. It teaches you to be selfish but also to be helpful. It teaches you to negotiate and how to compromise and adjust. You name it and you’ll learn it.

This brings me to the ladies’ compartment. Men are simple – not much to them or their traveling characteristics. It’s the women who are entertaining. It’s a typical crowd every day, can be divided into 4 groups – the pch-and-look group, the I-am-deaf-as-my-ears-are-plugged group, the talkative group and the “bullies”. Of course, there are a few who only observe the proceedings, like me for instance, but even I take sides at times, just to not get alienated.

The most common occurrence in the ladies’ compartment – the “point the finger” occurrence. As soon as a lady gets in, she starts pointing the finger at each one sitting. It’s the unasked question of “where are you getting down?” If the answer is a little before her own stop, the finger goes back and forth between the pointer and the seated person with the sideways movement of both heads. It’s a ritual followed by all. If initially you don’t do that because you think you can stand among the women throughout the journey, you will give up gradually and begin doing this. Longer the distance, sooner you give up. Experimentally proven, I can say.

Coming back to the groups, a little elaboration. Women love to talk; it’s in our blood. You get into a full train and the first thing that reaches your ears is the banter of the women circles. Not really a punishable offense, eavesdropping brings various stories to you, from different backgrounds and in numerous languages too. You get to hear Tamil, Hindi, English, Marathi and Malayalam stories and you listen – not much else to do when you are that crammed. They are fun, interesting and at times, boring. It may be an amusing incident from the day, a complaint about a colleague or boss, plans for a holiday or sorrows of womanhood. The weird part is that they (the group), if very friendly, even engage you if they think you can contribute, with the most common “hai na?” (isn’t it?).

But at times, you come across a particular group which doesn’t respond to anything. They are not only deaf but dumb and blind too. The “ears are plugged” gesture is the subtle way of saying “don’t bother me”. And the message is well received. Only time you could get irritated with this clan is when you really need them to move and they don’t because they simply can’t hear you, and when they ruin the “pointing” ritual. Else, it is a live and let live situation.

Want to know who gets on your nerves the maximum? It is without a doubt the pch-and-look group. It is obvious that everyone is standing, or even sitting, uncomfortably. Everyone can see that the tiny compartment (wonder why they make the ladies’ compartment small – gender discrimination, thinking only men work or something as deep as female foeticide?) is packed. And yet, this batch of queen bees want their space and comfort and won’t hesitate a second to show their disgust at being touched. I pity their husbands..ahem..even two is a crowd for their wives. Such fuss is impractical and it’s fun to tell them ‘deal with it’. Most satisfying.

I suppose that’s the feeling the “bullies” enjoy. The feeling of satisfaction that they get from ordering the others around. They are the center of every brawl, imposing their presence and many times preaching upon the other, more gullible women. You know the quality women possess of continuing a topic, talking to themselves or anyone who listens, forming a team and bitching together by the end of it? This group has it and they use it. Perhaps it is to vent a frustrating life, lifestyle, job, family, no one knows. Raging menopause (women do have many biological excuses, I must say), but among the same gender, it is obviously rendered moot.

But brawls are as common as flies on food. Especially on a hot day. Better if you are not a part of it, especially if you are losing. You lose a lot more than just a fight. Your dignity, worth and even place is taken away from you. Cat fights are even worse; pulling of hair, hitting, slapping, the whole of WWF happens right there in the crowded compartment. Men, in the adjacent compartment always have a good time. Of course, the satisfaction of victory is immense. Makes your lousy day good and a good day the best. It’s not only the men who get a boost in general, even women have ego which gets fed from winning a fight. She has just been proven right and which woman doesn’t like being right?

Whatever is the case, at night, you know the destination is home. Place (in most cases) of peace and tranquility. And even if not, at least a few hours of shut eye is in there somewhere. Maybe a good conversation with family, quality time with your partner, something that rejuvenates you to go through the whole process of travelling in Mumbai locals the next day. And believe me…it’s all priceless.

P. S. I’ll be leaving this place soon, but until then, happy travelling! 🙂


In Memoriam

Disclaimer: Completely fictional. My views. The reader is entitled to his/her own views. Not intended to hurt any sentiments/beliefs/opinions. Let freedom of speech, thought, expression remain true to its meaning.


“I’ll talk to him,” she said to her son.

He looked at her with tears in his eyes. He didn’t know what to do. He didn’t understand what he was doing wrong. And yet, he was convicted of a sin, much worse than others. But he had done nothing wrong!

She smiled at him. She understood him, his confusion, frustration and his fear. She was never judgmental, and when it came to her son, she definitely wasn’t going to be. She was proud of her son and was happy he had found the love of his life, someone he can spend the rest of his life with, happily.

She herself was in an unhappy marriage. She had to put up with a lot from her husband. He had many flaws, but she accepted them and made their marriage work. One couldn’t reason with the man. He was conventional and liked the natural order of things, hence the terrible situation their son was in. Her husband would never accept it. He was nothing short of cruel.

“Father, I am going to get married, to my college sweetheart,” their son had announced to his Father, after a lot of coaxing from his Mother. She was sitting right there. She saw the series of expressions her husband displayed.

“What!? That’s great news!” he had said. “May I know who the lucky girl is?” he had asked their son.

“He is not a girl, Father,” he said, after exchanging a glance with his Mother. She had looked at him, nodded and smiled, in encouragement. “He is the love of my life and I would like to marry him.”

There had been utter silence and then she saw her son being slapped by her husband. He wasn’t his Father at that moment, he was a hater. A hater of a lovely boy who was nothing abnormal. Their son was intelligent, charming and good looking. He was a complete gentleman. He was a son every parent would crave for, and yet, there was nothing but sheer loathing in her husband’s eyes for their son. He wasn’t his Father, she decided, he was a hater.

Heaving a great sigh, she walked out of her son’s room. She too didn’t know what to do.

A few days passed by. Their son had left the house in the middle of the night, disowned as he had been. A successful realtor, completely independent, and a caring son, had been kicked out of the house. She wasn’t worried. She knew he could take care of himself, but which son wouldn’t like the support of his Father?

The phone rang. Her husband picked it up. His best friend had apparently been arrested yet again for drunken misbehavior and domestic violence. “When will he learn!” he said, exasperated, to her. “I’ll be back, need to bail him out,” he said and left.

Her husband brought his drunk, abusive friend back home that day. She was aghast. He had no recollection of his misbehavior, nor of how he had beaten up his wife and daughter the previous night, both of whom she had met secretly, while her husband had been away. She wanted to help them, but they, for reasons unknown, were unwilling to just run away.

“I’m in debt, my friend,” said her husband’s friend to him.

“You always put yourself in trouble. You must stop drinking. Don’t you love your wife? Your daughter? You beat them, you devil!” said her husband, to his best friend.

“You lack the authority necessary, my darling,” she said to her husband. “Perhaps you should slap your friend? Who dwindled all his wealth, who beat up his wife and daughter, who is a pathetic drunk waste of a person!” she said sternly, looking right into her husband’s eyes.

“Look how your wife is talking to me!”

She ignored him. “You didn’t hesitate to slap your own son for telling you who he proposes to marry. Surely, my darling, having found the love of your life is a smaller sin than what your beloved friend has done?” she said, anger making it difficult for her to talk further. She left the room, with her husband staring after her.

Later that day, he came up to her and said, “Um, my dear, I have checked my friend into a rehabilitation center, he’s going to be a changed man soon-”

“Do what you want, my darling,” she said, cutting him off.

A week later, she found her husband yelling on the phone.

“Just give him the money, he’ll get the work done! What’s there to argue!?”

“But if we are found committing perjury –”

“Listen, we are buying the damn Judge, we won’t be found!”

“Thousands will be homeless, sir. It’s not a big loss for us –”

“Listen to me, you fool! It’s MY money. I’ll do whatever I want. And I want this deal! Don’t bring morals and sentiments into it! Who cares about the poor mouths on the streets? It’s their damn fault they couldn’t succeed in life! You do as I say!” he said and cut the call.

“Damn sentimental subordinates! Can’t do one thing correctly!” he said, looking at her. Hatred welled inside her.

“They probably want to do the right thing, my darling.”

“What do you mean,” he asked her.

“Well, they are against the injustice. They don’t want the devastation of all those families on their conscience. They care about those families too, along with their own. But what can one expect from a man who readily disowned his own, morally pure son, for simply loving? Ha! You are right, they are fools!” she said and left the room.

Her words had made him angry. He did not like her talking back to him. She was this subdued housewife once upon a time. He had tamed her well. He had been very good with her, unlike his friend. He had never hit her, yelled, maybe. But which husband doesn’t put his foot down once in a while, he thought. But he had had enough. He went into their bedroom and he crossed over to her, and yelled, “Look! I’ve had enough! Our son disappointed us! Do not make it as though I am the bad guy here! He is GAY! It is not a good thing! It is unacceptable!”

“How is it unacceptable? He is just in love!”

“With a MAN!”

“So? How does it matter? What is so bad about it? How has he disappointed you? He is independent, takes care of us, is doing really well for himself! Had he brought home a girl, would you have treated him the same way?” she asked, trying to reason with him.

“I..Don’t! You know it is unacceptable!”

“I know it is acceptable. You condone a wife beater, an abuser. You support corruption and yet LOVE is unacceptable to you?”

He had no words. He looked at her, silent. She continued.

“My son is more of a man than you will ever be. In my eyes, you are the one who is immoral and unacceptable. My son respects women, even if he isn’t attracted to them!”

He found his voice suddenly. “I have never mistreated you! You think I do not respect women?!”

“Wonderful defense, my darling. My oppression is proof to the respect you’ve given me, isn’t it?” she asked sarcastically. “I have had a voice in this house, isn’t it? I have been never been treated like a servant, right? I have never been raped, right?”


“That’s what you have been doing since the past 30 years, my darling.”

She left home that night, her bags packed. She did not care what society thought anymore. She had tried to keep an Open mind about her situation. She had dealt with it. She had tried to Open up the narrow mindset of her husband. Everything she did, she did for her son. If her husband had changed ways, she would have stayed. But, better late than never.

Numerous crimes are condoned every day. Corruption is what the world runs on. Women face violence and discrimination every day. There are hundreds of rape cases which go unreported and many more cases lost due to lack of evidence or simple partiality. Rapists are allowed to walk free. Marital rape is never even brought up. And yet, homosexuality is the greater offence.

The world is a funny place and so are the people in it.

P. S. In memory of the Orlando victims.


An Understanding with the Divine

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I have only one God. He is like a friend to me. He is a “he” because maybe I’m a girl and I find Him being a “him”, more comforting, I’m not sure. But I have only one God. There are many religions in this world and many Gods, too. Within India itself there are hundreds of deities. A different God for every area. To each their own, of course, but I have only one God.

I’m unsure of how many share the same philosophy as me. Nevertheless, I’ll type mine out. God, for me, is a consolation, a support, a confidante and many times, a scapegoat. Everything that needs to be done in reality, is obviously in our own hands. If I don’t go to the loo, well, no one can do it for me (unless there is a catheter involved, but let’s ignore that). This is a small scale example. Let’s say, there is an examination. Now, I do pray. I pray that the exam must go well, that it should be an easy paper, that I should make it through. I pray to God for all of this. But I know very well that if I do not attempt the paper, myself, no God can help me. I am still practical and am aware that I exist in reality. The divine, is just a taker of my anxiety and a form of solace. So now, if I am aware that the paper set is not in my hands and it will be easy, I’ll pass, only if I have studied, then why do I pray? I pray to ease my responsibilities. Yes, it is selfish of me. But that helps me perform better. I can be the person who takes it up all on herself; there are such people who sincerely believe that they make their own destiny, that it isn’t in anyone else’s hands, but I prefer giving the responsibility to someone else. And if things go wrong, I can place the blame on Him, just till I can cope with the fact that I screwed up.

Don’t judge me. I’m just human. If I say I hand over responsibility, I’m not stating I become nonchalant of my own work. NO! I give off my anxiety, I let Him be anxious for me. That’s all. As I said before, He is my friend, I confide my fears in Him and it gets taken care of. Pardon me if I haven’t conveyed the picture well, but I hope you at least got the gist.

So, understanding? Well, I visited a temple today. It is an Annual tradition in my family. Visiting this one temple on the 12th of June, every year. I have many things to be thankful for, so went to give thanks to God. A deity. I am not mentioning any names of the Gods because I have only one God. I just visited a form of His, in stone. The thanks are in order after many ups and downs, and finally almost making through them all. I have been scared and have been praying that things work out for years now. Well, I have been given what I need, not what I want, but that’s how He works. I was and am practical. I worked very hard these past years, but now, after placing blame on failures despite successes, I have coped with the situation. Anyway, I gave thanks for helping me cross the hurdle this past week. But I realized, I have nothing to pray for anymore. I have exhausted myself. It is always the same thing and now I feel like, He knows already, what’s the point!? So I find myself standing in front of God, half-heartedly. It is sad. It isn’t like I have no faith. How much ever I tell you that I do things myself and God is just a confidante, I do believe that there are coincidences in life, there is something called destiny and God’s grace is important for things to succeed. Maybe I am a hypocrite, but I believe the above. Everything involves a little luck and it is God’s grace that helps you through it. It is 99.9% ones own work, true. But it is 0.1% his help… Hope you get the gist of what I am saying.

So, anyway, I stood there, today, half-heartedly again. Not knowing what to say. But I decided that I must make an effort for my friend. So I did. I thanked Him, I prayed that everything works out well and that He never leaves my side.

So, where does the understanding come into the picture? You see, when I was younger, I noticed how I thought of God only when I was troubled. I would forget to thank Him for the good times, would never think of Him then. I felt guilty. Though now I do remember to thank Him even for the good because as twisted as it sounds, my troubles, if dealt with, become my good, today. Anyway, I felt very guilty so I decided that God and I have an understanding. If I forget Him, a little trouble is His way of making me remember Him. A subtle hint that I need to think of Him. It is a good system. We have a wonderful understanding. So ever since, if things go wrong, I consider it as a pinch from Him to make me think of Him. Albeit the system does hurt once in a while, but hey, life’s not fair either, then why should God be?

P. S. The images above are of the temples I visited in Kerala, back in 2013. Today’s temple resembles the same, sort of. The typical lamps, when lit, look exquisite at night. The solitary figure in the third image is Dad, wearing the dress code for men at the temple. I do not remember the names of these temples but will ask my parents and update the same soon. Serenity at its best! Hope to have a continued understanding! Happy praying! 🙂